Forever Friends. The ones you made years ago while growing up. The ones you know who will always stick up for you no matter how many rumours they hear about you. The ones who come to your house uninvited because there is no such thing as being "invited" when it comes to them. These Forever Friends change during the growing up years but don't change enough not to last forever when it comes to their friendship with you. I would never want to screw up my relationship with any of these Forever Friends of mine. So when two Forever Friends fall in love, i freak out for them and the foreverness of their friendship. What if it fails? So many people in the world to risk it with- why risk it with a Forever Friend?
These days all around me, my Forever Friends are falling in love with eachother and risking it, while i stand firm with my rules- firm in my stance of never screwing it up with a Forever Friend and wondering if i am missing out on something huge.
Al was a resister like me as well. But she finally married F on Sunday. Her Forever Friend is now hers truly... forever. Where as a part of me is thrilled she finally took that leap of faith, another part of is in awe of her for her bravery...her boldness. She looked beyond. She took the friendship to a new level, she gave it a chance. Chance. The word itself is so eerily risky.
I'm a bundle of emotions after this wedding...or perhaps its the great Karachi return...or perhaps both and more...
whatever it is, it made me blog again...finally.
:)
cheers,
kay
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11 comments:
yay for being in karachi
ehh about friends become hamarey wohs but hamarey wohs should be our friends first if you know what I mean.
What I really want to know is WHAT RUMOURS?!! humour me, I need gossip.
P.S: Your friend has nice teeth.
Kay are you too getting hooked up with not-a-best-friend? This great Karachi return seems unplanned..more on those lines 'beta larka bura nahi..maa bhi itni khraant nahi lagti tum bus jaldi se ajaoo' lolol
I have a theory on this girl/boy best dosts thing. Will share it here
i am all up for the Forever Friends marriage.. when u marry sum1, or any1.. marriage does have an important place for frndshp besides luv!
its very imp. that couples are friends.. love is eventually there!! but if friendship aint there, it aint good!!
areh.. my blogger buddies..please do not start speculating whatever i may say here to what might be going on directly in my life! i tend to step in other peoples shoes and analyze sometimes... wouldnt i be totally messed up if i had been through everything i have blogged about here in the last 5 years DIRECTLY? :)
aneela : i wish there was gossip, even two months in newyork was completely non scandalous :P
valkyrie: please reveal all theories immediatley :)
karachite: :P it depends...
Been so long since I visited your blog but it's been a while since you posted anything as well.
I have no deep insights or theories about this. I just think that once you see the one you're meant to be with, you'll know. And you don't really have to choose from the best friends you already have. Complete strangers can be your best friends too.
Email me sometime =)
yay for blogging again :)
life is an event..and the way earth came into being..and how they say the great magnetic shift will bring about a change...the same way..events make history... this event made u write again..
good that u r back to blogging..i am too
i almost did end up with my BFF, but sometimes it isnt as perfect as it seems.. we could have been a blast but then fate has promised eternity for that :)
this was a neat reminder of that which was... once upon a time!
thanks guys, its good to be back..:)
Americanizing desi: ouch...that couldnt have been a pretty experience...sorry for reminding you of it.
kAy I know this is sort of late but what school do you go to here in NYC?
I live here and was wondering.
Cuz as you might of heard...in this city you're bound to run into people and share moments that are truly irreplacable.
Hope to see you around! :)
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